Involve your kids

Communication is key.  Between us as a couple, as much as with children. They are also a part of the conversation. We are a whole unit working together. 

Of course, there are particular things Mars and I handle on our own, but including the kids in decision making - especially where we get to explore next - makes this life more enjoyable for them as well.

Take time for yourself, and your couple

The past five years have made us incredible at conflict resolution, listening to each other’s needs and respecting each other. I know we wouldn’t have gotten to this place so early in our relationship, without the opportunities for growth we’ve had over the last five years. 

Being able to respectfully tell your partner you need space and be allowed to have that is really vital. There is no room for resentment.  Living in a van causes everything below the surface to rise.

Also, as a couple, getting alone time has to be seen as a creative adventure. Like two kids in high school trying to sneak away to be together — except in our story, we are sneaking away from our kids. Haha.